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writes: hello friends!...So, I am a singer/songwriter who has recently linked up with a very talented guitar player with whom I am working on a new project with. Thing is, I am 26 years old and am finding myself geting giddy inside and nervous when we have had the last 2 sessions because I have found myself attracted to this man (he is 38 me 26) and I feel so distracted! I do not and WILL not let him know, but my improv is suffering for it because I am bottling up the emotions I am experiencing at the moment and am getting nervous and self-conscious because of my d**ned school girl's crush. Is there any one who has gone through this and has any advice? I DO NOT WANT to be having these d**ned feelings. The man is legend in NY and has produced and written for many amazing artists. I DO NOT WANT TO BLOW IT!THANKS
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): Darn it all, don't be so hard on yourself. You only find the new guy attractive, what's wrong with you saying to him that you like him and he gives you good vibrations?
You always have the power to control your reactions. Just getting the feeling off your chest doesn't mean you are going to have a relationship only that you are human(biology?).
You can even talk about how you miss your boyfriend with him or that he remind you of him if that is the case.
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reader, boootz9 +, writes (30 November 2009):
boootz9 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you but NO did i fail to mention I have a boyfriend in Iraq which makes the situation even worse? LOL at life sometimes and damn you biology!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): Why do ye seek to flow upstream when it much easier to flow downstream? He probably knows all ready, get over yourself and tell him you like him, silly girl. ;-)
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