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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:hiMy husband recently moved out and back to his mum's, things hadn't been that great for a while but i never expected this. He recently starting going out with a new bunch of friends ones whom i never ever met and this used to really annoy me. We have been together 15 years and married for 12 with 2 lovely kids who are 11 and 8, since we have seperated we have had sex twice but im now thinking is he only doing this so as i don't move on and giving me hope that we will get back??
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (29 November 2009):
 I honestly think the on-going sexual activity is confusing you. For the sake of yourself and your children it is time to have a meeting with your husband and decide what your future will be. It could be a divorce to cut ties, it could be marital counselling...but it shouldn't just be left dangling as you do need to get things clear. Your children are of an age where they can understand family disputes and it is therefore imperative that you sort out your marital problems (one way or another) to save them from confusion and emotional turmoil. It must be a very hard time for you right now and I do hope you have people around you who can support you.
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