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*mjo
writes:My boyfriend's been really close to another girl and i dont know what to do.We were out yesterday and i was playing with his phone when i stumbled across some texts between him and this girl at his uni. I've met her and she seemed nice enough but i always had an uneasy feeling about her relationship with my boyfriend. anyway these texts read (from her to him) "I'm sorry im such a tease" "i dont think im worth ruining your relationship for" and from him to her "I really like you too" "i think your amazing" "We'll have to control it" Now this came as a shock to me as he is normally so loving and i've never had a reason to not trust him or suspect him of anything like this in the past (we've been together 9 months btw)Anyway i confronted him about this later that day and he said he was just being nice to her, that he didnt want to hurt her feelings, but i felt the texts were a bit much for 'just being nice'? I wish i could say that this is it but whilst we were talking about this he told me about last week when he got really drunk (something he rarely does) and he tried it on with her... :| and then a few nights ago she stayed at his and tried to kiss him. This isn't too bad however she slept in his bed, he slept on the floor but now i dont think i can ever go and stay with him again cos just the thought of her in his bed makes me feel sick!opinions and advice please?!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 November 2009):
They seem way too close to me. She slept in the bed and he slept on the floor? Who told you that, him? He tried it on, and she tried to kiss him? And to then there are the texts as well, which are far too close for just 'friends'. I think you uneasy feelings were right, adn I think you need to sit down by yourself and think about whether you would be better moving on now before you get really hurt.
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