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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive liked this girl for a few months now but only recently have i worked up the courage to ask her for her number, which she gave to me. We ended up txting each other all night and connected really well and our night ended with her coming over and spending the night (nothing happened), in the morning we got up, she kissed me and we both went to work.Now it seems like she really likes me from what ive heard and felt, but theres one drawback...she has a husband. They are seperated and she is in the middle of getting a divorce, i recieved a txt message from her saying that shes in the middle of all this mess and its something that she has to go through alone and shes sorry she didnt mention it from the start.Im ok with the fact that shes married, its not like shes living with him and planning on staying with him, shes seperated and soon to be divorced altogetehr, i want to be with her and help her through this mess and be someone she can lean on and relax with at the end of the day. Is this situation bad? is it bad to be with a girl whos married but nearing divorce?Why do you think she wants to be alone through this? and she started off making it feel like shes sooo into me and now shes backing off, why? I feel crushed because i liked her alot!
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reader, yussuf  +, writes (29 November 2009):
 Dude if she wants you to back-off then you have to. take my word for it, save yourself the pain and ease of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): Hey So it sounds like this woman has a lot of emotional confusion and baggage. I dont think she meant to "lead" you but more so she needed that attention and affection for the night. trust me the last thing you want is to get into a situation with this woman, fall in love and then she runs back to her husband.. or is just never really over him.Try to if you can leave her to her mess to work out and date someone else in the meantime just to help you not lament over someone who has told you they are not in a space to be with you...hope this helps.
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