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female
age
30-35,
*ossie
writes:Hello. This is my painful and bitter sweet romance disaster. Well, my name is Jossie and I'm 18 years old. I moved to Wisconsin about 5 months ago so I attended my familys church. When I moved to wisconsin romance wasn't something I thought of. Not one bit. So, when the Pastors son started talking to me as if I was the most special girl in the world I couldn't but fall in love with him. I've never ever been in love, I thought love was only for fools.But this boy made me want to be loved so much.every little smile or touch made me shiver all over. His precense alone made me giggle all over and worms were constantly running in my tummy. This was love. We talked and txted on the phone. It was so special. He told me he loved me 2 months later and I told him too. We couldn't date officially because his parents would appose him dating me, afterall he's only 16. Yes I am a cougar. Lol well, one friday we had this youth rally going on and we were so excited to hang out together and I was so happy to hang out with the youth in church. the service alone was fine but then the gossip started. Apparently some girls were saying that him and I skipped the service to do dirty stuff.which we didn't. Anyways the night turned sour and bad that he avoided me in order for people to stop talking.we held hand afterwards and we belived that everything will be alright. To cut the story short, the girls told the pastor , his dad, about it but the pastor of course believed his son. After the incident he wouldn't talk txt me as much. He told me he wanted things to cool down. We were so happy before but when this happened it ruined what we had. I told him that if he liked me he had to trust me. He hasn't talk to me for about 3 weeks now. I heard from my guy friend that he told him that he didn't see me "like that" anymore.He smiles at me but he doesn't talk to me. He's my first love and I feel so deceived hy him. I don't know what to do. I cry way too much. A simple friendly hug from friends make me weep like a little girl. This feeling of longing it scares me. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to feel. When I see him my eyes fill and my heart hurts. I don't know. Help!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (30 November 2009):
 I'm not sure he stopped liking you; it sounds more like he may have gotten some heat from his Dad over your relationship. Even though the two of you have behaved innocently, the gossip threatens his and his father's reputation so this may be the reason for the distance.
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