A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: So, theres this teacher(guy) at my school who is very nice, tall and fairly ripped and good looking, alwase goes easy when a student misbehaves and so on. My dad was a sperm donor, so i never met him. I am 13, i dont know how old he is but looks mid 30s, and i think i like him. Only im a straight male. But i dont really wanna hump him or anything, but rather i want to be held by him, listen to his heartbeat and whenever a fight breaks out, or some kid starts to pick on me i just kind of wish he was there to stop whoever is messing with me. Im not sure if im gradually turning gay, or if it could do with the fact that the father was never there for me.What do you think?
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reader, david ~gay~ +, writes (30 November 2009):
lol ur not gay trust me.. id actually go with what the others are saying but id try tlking to ur teacher too but i wouldnt go all out and hug him or anything id try to get him to like u like a son or a good friend like make sure u do all ur work in his class and try ur best to stay out of trouble and dont goof off and see where it gets u
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 November 2009):
No, you're not turning gay at all, you're just craving a father-type role model. It is good for a child to have a male role model, so it might be worth talking to your mum about joining a club or something, where older men are so you can just mix with them a bit. I don't think you're turning gay at all. I just think it would be a good idea if you could hang around with a few older guys so you can look up to them.
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (29 November 2009):
your not gradually turning gay, it sounds like you are missing a father figure. If you were gay then you would fancy boys, want to kiss them get turned on by them, want them sexually like you would a girl. what you want is a father figure to stand up for you comfort you and defend you.
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