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I kept it all in the familiy and slept with his brother

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Question - (29 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I slept with my current Boyfriends brother about 3 years ago, at the time I had broke up with my boyfriend because a)he moved in with his pregnant gf b)he hit me with my daughter(his 1st kid)in my arms, c)cheated on me with 3 different girls. There's more but I digress. Me and his Brother got drunk, I was totally gone and his brother took me to his car were we did the deed. I dont remeber most the night only that.

His brother wasn't as drunk and said he would keep it a secret. My question is should I feel bad about what happened or should I tell him? We are working things out and I feel bad and dont know what to do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2009):

It's me again. The 1 that kept it in the family. I am working it out because of our daughter only. YES he did cheat and had hit me. He hasn't hit me since that one time and swears he has not cheated since we've got back together. At the time me and his brother had sex he was still trying to gat back with me. I wouldn't be with him because he was still living with his ex. He broke up with his ex almost 3years ago and we've been "together" since. I had sex with his brother 5months before we got together. It was only 1time. I just feel guilty and sometimes I think why should I feel guilty he did so much worse to me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009):

he cheated on u 3 times?

he hit u

and he moved in wit his gf?

he was wit u and another girl?

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A female reader, Carrot2000 United States +, writes (29 November 2009):

Carrot2000 agony auntI wouldn't because you were broken up, and you shouldn't feel the need to confess anything. On another note, you may want to reconsider working things out with a man who hit you, got another chick pregnant, and cheated on you with three other girls. He doesn't sound like anyone you should waste time with.

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