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writes:well i dont really know where to start. I'm 17 years old, she is 18 years old, we started out friends, then good friends, then two weeks before the end of school last year i finally grabbed her hand and kissed her like 10 minutes later lol. now 6 months later were still together, but we only started dating on 11/4/09, the only thing that has changed was the name we went from talking to each other, to dating. i would say we moved on a regular pace on holding hands, to kissing, to making out, to rubbing, to hand jobs to having sex, about two months into it we had sex, my first time.i know that the past three guys she slept with was 21 20 and 18. That was about two years ago...because she was pretty tight when i got ahold of her lol. excuse my language.Now we share good times, get along very well never argue/fight we always listen to each other , but most important is the trust, we trust each other very much, ill let her hang out with her guy friends and i wont have a problem with it, because i trust her, and she lets me do my thing because she trusts me. She tells me ecerything and i tell her everything.Now those are all the good things... Now the things that bother me are we live 22.7 miles away from drive way to driveway to driveway, we both have our lisences and we see each other maybe 3 or 4 times in more than 5 hours periods, in 7 days ? is that enough? it always seems i wanna see her more...i said i love you once and she just kinda laid there looking into my eyes like she was scarred...oh almost forgot, her ex..the 21 year old fed her a bunch of bullshit and treted her like shit and lived with her and her mom and just ended it for no reason, she loved him very much i guess. she was broke over it. which is why i think she wont say she loves me, because she is scared that im going to hurt her like he did.i always assure her i will never hurt her and she says she feels safe when i hold her,....idk i just think about her all the time and i just want to know what to do to make her happy...sorry if this doesnt make much sense, but if you want to help me..please message me back.
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reader, domybest  +, writes (29 November 2009):
I think by the sounds of it you are already making her a happy girl! It doesn't matter if she says she loves you, you sound like you have an amazing relationship. I think you just need to wait for her to be ready to tell you.It sounds like you see her "enough" there is never too much or too little to see someone. Its good that you leave wanting more, its better than seeing her so often you want time away. Absense makes the heart grow stronger and all that!If I was you I would keep going at it, keep reassuring her, complimenting her and making her happy. When she is ready she will let you know.Good luck!x
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