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writes:I dont get it, I'm always the friend to a boy, never the girlfriend and I hate it, its always "you're a great friend" or "I love you as a friend" never "I just love you" any tips on getting them to change their minds x thanks for the time Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): This is just like me. Although I actually do get with them but it's never for real they do my head in. Like the guy I sit nxt to in maths, he flirts and steals my book and writes things like you are well fit and can I have your number so I gave it him, but I got with him that night be after he txt me saying do u mind if we keep it quiet so I just said ok. Then the next day he was with his ex! And about 2 weeks later he said do you want to meet up again but I said no cos I don't want to be messed about. Even tho I really like him. My point is I would rather just be friends, bcos you know when somethings not right, and the right lad will come along one day. You just have to wait..
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reader, bubblegirl1818  +, writes (29 November 2009):
 well make sure your still being yourself around them. But flirt a little with them and let them know your interasted in them. Thats what i did and try making them laugh alot guys love girls with a sence of humer. And try smileing at them when they look at you. If there smart and are good friends to you they should get the hint. I hope this help an good luck.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 November 2009):
Oh hun, you sound just like me when I was your age.
None of the boys liked me and I used to get so sad about it wondering why.
But it does get better. Boys are just stupid and go for the girls who look most like the girls in magazines.
As soon as I grew up a bit and then went to uni I was fighting the guys off with a stick.
I know it feels like a rejection but look around you and ask yourself. Are any of these school boys really worth your time?
Wait a while and then you get to date men instead which is so much better.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (29 November 2009):
 The best relationships always start as friendships..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): Maby they like you but they're shy. The thing u should do is invite him over to watch a movie together (try to be alone). Sit nesxt to him and if possible make phisical contact for example you could try to hold his hand. if he doesnt hold back he is comfortable being with you. if he pulls his hand away and asks "what are you doing?" just say "sorry about that" and continue as you were.
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