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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and its going really great though he used to have an internet dating profile which he told me about but he still uses it. He says he doesnt go to pick up girls but just to check out the 'scene' to see new members and things like that. He assures me I shouldnt be worried but I cant help but feel a little out of joint. Am I being too up tight? Reply to this Question
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reader, datingadvicenz  +, writes (29 November 2009):
 Great answers by the others...I'd just like to add in that if you're looking for a long term relationship - but he's not ready for that or hasn't that intention with you, then there could be some difficulties. If long term's what you're looking for (and he isn't)- you have the option to step back and let him know that it's your intent to be with a man who is ready and wanting a long-term committed relationship. If he isn't ready for that, that's cool - that's his decision. If he isn't ready for that - (his action will be by not giving up his profile), then you can let him know that perhaps this isn't the right relationship for you. If that is so then you can re-activate your own dating profile.All the best...Warmlydatingadvicenz.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): He isn't cheating on you, don't worry.However, I really really hope you have a big serious talk to him about all this...It's really not fair on you.As I said before, internet dating sites are for two things:1. Finding love2. Getting laidThey're never just about making friends.I know you guys will sort things out:)
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (29 November 2009):
No, you're not being too uptight. No way in hell should your boyfriend still have an online DATING profile. This is the time to figure out if you walk or not because he's keeping that profile to cheat and/or to see if something better comes along. Dump him ASAP!!!
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reader, darc  +, writes (29 November 2009):
 those stuff that they kept hidden from us is considered cheating. been there so i know but well it doesn't apply to everyone but it applies to almost everyone.
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reader, Frenzotic  +, writes (29 November 2009):
 why would he need to check new members out?
Tell him he doesn't need to check it anymore, obviously you don't want to turn it into a major issue but if he's with you, he doesn't need to check other people out on a dating site now does he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): ur instincts tellin u tat he is doin somethin?
if u see tat he doesnt do anything suspicious
i think tat u r ok..
sorry if i was no help
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