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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am married to man that i dont love before,i want to be honest i marry him because i want to have a good life,but in 4 years beeing married i am not that happy.i tried to love him, i do my best to be a good wife even my feelings for him is not real love..when we migrate in other country i found out that he have lot of secrets to me he have other woman,and even he's with me he cheated me many time but i still forgive him because i know to my self that i have mistake to him,that i dont love him.after 4 years i we both agree that we need to separate because he have other woman..i dont have choice just to move on.I met a guy who i really love..i dont know but the first time i saw him i think i know him for the long time,but we both lied to each other that we are married that time,i am afraid that he didnt understand me that i am married.after a months he tried to stay away from me,but maybe destiny allow us to see each other again and we continue our relationship...he still married his divorce is on process now...i want to marry him after my divorce..am i wrong to married again to the man that i love??but i feel guilty to his wife..they are only married a year.but he tell me that he dont love his wife..they are not leaving together. i dont know if its right to marry soon...
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (29 November 2009):
 Try being single and simply date for a while. You don't have to jump into marriage again so soon.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 November 2009):
It's not wrong to marry the person you love. but I do think you need to give it a bit more time just to get to know him before you do.
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