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*rissy_Captivate
writes:Hey, i'm in a relationship at the minute, have been with him for a month now..although at the minute he's in a different country and he isn't moving over here until next year, so it's a long distance relationship.The way i feel at the minute, because we can't see each other often, it's as if we're not connecting properly, we rarely speak online or on the phone, and if we do it's not for longLately i've been having feelings towards someone else, and i haven't acted on them..although it's really messing with my head, and i just want to know, is it wrong for me to have feelings for someone else? :/ i feel bad for doing so, but i honestly can't help it, i used to like them 4 years ago and then we stopped speaking for a while, and since i seen them recently the feelings have came back, although we've never done anything more than friends because each time there seems to be feelings for him, he's either in a relationship or he's just got out of one and his head's messed up.My head's so muddled :( i just need to know how wrong i'm beingThanks so much for anyone who replies to this question, i feel slightly silly for posting itKrissy x
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reader, Sarah:)  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 I was in a long distance relationship before, and was attracted to many other people while in the relationship. I even stopped thinking I loved him. But then he came back and I realized I was so stupid and I loved him more than anything. But, I always kinda knew this would happen. So what I'm saying is, go with your gut. If you think he'll come in a year and you'll love him, wait. If not, go for the someone else.
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