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writes:hi everyone...I have sort of a dumb question to ask but here it goes. Well about a month ago me and my boyfriend had sex, I'm not a virgin and neither is he. I'll explain more. My first time was over the summer, after a few times..more then a few; it always hurt and I didnt bleed. I don't want to be graphic but the guy I lost my virginity to was (not to be ignorant) but not big, but my boyfriend on the otherhand is, and when we had sex I did bleed with him, it hurt a little but it was more comfortable then the previous guy I "lost my virginity" to. I just don't understand that tho, to me it seems like my cherry was popped by my current boyfriend because of the bleeding. I just wanted to see if anyone else thought that could be a possibilty as well. If anyone could help me out I'd appreciate it!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (29 November 2009):
You lost your virginity to the first guy, but the second guy could have possibly broken your hymen and the first guy didn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy question is did the guy that i thought I lost my virginity actually take it? because it was always discomforting therefore did he actually go all the way in? dosent seem like it to me. With that being said, could my current boyfriend be the one to actually go all the way in? if he went all the way then it sounds like he would be the one to have taken it and not the person I thought I lost my virginity to.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 November 2009):
 Well the first guy took your virginity by repeated penetration. The other guy, if much larger, may have caused some bleeding, but what is your question? Nevertheless, intercourse should not hurt you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): yea it doesnt matter if it popped or not
the first guy to enter in u
is the one who u lost ur virginity to
but if its hard for u to accept tat
u can b like yea i had 2 virginities haha
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reader, jeremiah +, writes (29 November 2009):
Figuratively, your previous boyfriend did, but literally your current did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): Girl. I had the. Same problem my first bf was soo small my current bf is so big he made me bleed and hurt!!! This happened to muhh best trend too
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reader, sandiego619 +, writes (29 November 2009):
 Personally i think it was your first foyfriend who you LOST YOUR VIRGINITY to. It doesnt matter if you bled or not, it was your first time. Therefore he was the one that "popped your cherry.
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