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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hibeen with my boyfriend seven months now, iv never loved anyone the way i love him. first of all things were great, he was always here for me, never let me down. now i just think hes fallen out of love with me, he still tells me he loves me, but its different, we spend less and less time together, this aint my fault, im always there when he needs me. the other night was when i finally realised "maybe this is over" we both had both been drinking vodka, and he said he needed to tell me something, i asked him what and he just wouldnt tell me, so i got really tearful and stormed out my house, he didnt follow me to see if i was ok, my sister did, he just drove off home, and the funny thing is im the one who begged him to come back and the one who kept saying sorry eventhough it was his fault for working me up like that in the first place... i just think he doesnt love me anymore (maybe he never has) things are different and its tearing me apart knowing things are getting worse. he still always hugs and kisses me, we still have sex, we still talk, its just he never seems to be here for me when im upset, he trys to avoid it, and if i need to talk to him about "us" he seems to avoid it, eventhough he does try to talk sometimes. i just want your opinion, do you think he has fallen out of love with me and just dont wanna hurt my feelings? do you think i should let this relationship go? (give me an honest answer) i love this boy but at the moment he dont seem to care. he never texts or calls me just to see how i am, he never has done though because he hates texting and i know he does, but i wish he would just make more of an effort, im talking on here because i cant talk to him, i use to think i could tell him anything, but now hes made me afraid to tell him what im feeling coz he storms off. is it time to end this do you think? or should i try my best to work this out? im confused but in my heart i know its slowly falling apart right before my eyes that i cant stop crying. x
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reader, Sarah:)  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 You're young.
You don't need him to make you happy, you have plenty of time.
I say, move on and find someone who appreciates you and your feelings, and is there for you when you don't feel good.
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