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writes:Hey everyboy!!! Well my problem is that my school is finishing up for the summer in four days and I was wondering what to say to my teacher. I have known this teacher for three years now and we have become sort of like friends.A whlie ago my friends told him that I fancied him even though its NOT TRUE. I know my friends were just kidding but he might have taken them seriously because he always blushes and smiles when he sees me. This for me seems kind of awkward and I feel uncomfortable talking to him.I told him my friends were joking and he seemed to laugh it off but he still acts strange even though I,ve never given him any flirty suggestions or anything.So I thought I should say something before the holidays to clear the misunderstandings between us because I only have a year left of school and I dont want any more awkwardness. I will appreciate all of your advice and answers. Thank you very very much.
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady +, writes (3 June 2009):
Lol. Telling you don't fancy him you not reassure him or clear up any misunderstandings i'm afraid. If after telling him your friends only said it as a joke, he still thinks you fancy him probably best just to leave it be and he'll eventually give up or change his view. If you go and tell him again 'by the way im not interested in you', the fact that you are so worried and concerned with this as to go and tell him again gives him the opposite message. Best just to leave it, things will get better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): I'm more concerned as to why he's blushing around you. He's embarassed and/or flattered at the idea or you liking him. He may be acting a bit weird is probably because he doesn't believe you, and is on his guard a bit so you don't get the wrong impression. So I think you should make it more clear to him, but bring it up casually (you could mention that since the incident you've noticed he's been acting a bit offish and this is the reason you want to make it more clear)
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reader, betty_black +, writes (24 May 2009):
 I dont think you should make him feel any more awkward by bringing it up again when its already been resolved. You have to realise that hes in a terrible position. Its completely illegal for him to do anything with you, its even frowned upon to give a teacher a leaving present nowadays!! And if his boss (your head teacher) finds out people are saying these things, he could easily be investigated! So just leave it, just carry on as normal and pretend they didnt say it.
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