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Hand-job Disaster

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Question - (24 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay sooooo my 1st bf and i (i'm his 1st gf too) very recently just experimented by taking things to 3rd base..i did the basing. to be precise, i gave him a hand job, a pretty weak one seeing as i had no clue what i was really doing. but it did do the trick after a few minutes (he was kindaaa guiding me, to slow/speed up, encouraging me by telling me how unbelievable it felt, etc), cos he kinda...exploded. that's right no joke it was like a frickin volcano. this is so embarrassing to be saying, but it just went EVERYWHERE. luckily it was on me and not on the furniture. i felt like one of those chicks in the porno movies, only it was unintentional and i was fully clothed. anyway though as you can imagine it was painfully awkward afterward.

how do i keep this from happening exactly? i mean i figure i should have some sort of tissue handy, but how do i y'know--- operate WITH the tissue? and have it ready to tame the jets??

i think my bf's a bit traumatized

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009):

well since i am a sex-obsessed teenaged female, i have obviously given handjobs to the biggest and juiciest cocks available. personally, i avoid a mess by swallowing the cum; it is a definite turn-on of mine and pretty much tastes like salt. Give it a try; u don't necessarily have to put your mouth on his dick...

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntTo ilovsox, you are using the wrong condoms if it is affecting the sensation. but I'm guessing buy your profile name that a Tube sock provides the sensation you require! ;p

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A male reader, iluvsox United States +, writes (24 May 2009):

First off, I want to say that you're better than a lot of "first time" girls out there. My ex used to give me handjobs, but she would always stop right before I "exploded" (I also thought that the word you chose was funny). In that aspect, there's nothing worse than having the girl go until right before the guy cums and just stops. I, personally, find that extremely mean. It also didn't help that she wouldn't budge on it at all (even after I offered to do it with a condom).

ANYWAY (sorry about that, I just wanted to say good job for not stopping XD), the best thing to do would be to just layer a few tissues in your hands and just go into it.

Or use a condom (though it takes away from the feeling).

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntUse a condom then all the mess is contained!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009):

hahah exploded is painting out a really unrealistic but funny picture for me

anyway, sorry back to your issue. well since it was his first time receiving a handjob from a girl, it would have been really good and very exciting for him which might have added to the explosion

also, when i give my boyfriend a handjob he normally has some tissues handy. if hes lying down he just puts it on his stomach area. other times he will ask me to slow it down because guys can feel it coming, and he'll hold over my hand and direct it to a place where he can cum or just cover the top with some tissue.

it normally is very messy and awkward the first few times but after a while you guys will find way to make it work

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