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writes:I've become so predictable in everthing I do my friends and family always know what I am going to say or do, and it's getting me nowhere cause people get bored of being around me. I do occasionally do unpredictable things and get noticed for a while but otherwise I'm always in the backround. How can I stop being like this and just be not so boring? My life is not anything that anyone would be interested in, nothing seems to work out and everything ends so bluntly into nothing and I end up back where I started.If anyone has any suggestions on how I can change please tell me, I need some help. Reply to this Question
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (25 May 2009):
 We're creature of habits, it's normal to fall in a routine at times. It takes new information to get out of a routine. Once you know there's something else, the routine change.
For me, when I was younger, I was in the background because I had low self-esteem. I didn't know who I was and therefor people didn't know who I was, they didn't care about me.
Finding yourself is a life long journey, a way that I found helped that process is reading books about self-growth. "The Magic of Thinking BIG" book by David J. Schwartz helped to changed my life around.
I came to know me more through my fate too. By focusing more on it, I'm focusing less on myself. It's like I see myself for who I am and it allows me to work on things that needs to be worked on.
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reader, Loopy14 +, writes (25 May 2009):
 Life doesn't have to be one big drama to be interesting. Concentrate on what makes you happy and go with it, don't worry about what everyone else thinks, its your life not there's. I also think you need to build on your confidence rather that planning unpredictable things to get you noticed, that type of behaviour could get you into a lot of trouble down the line. Behaving like a person your not may get you attention in the short run, but it is the wrong way to look for attention. Concentrate on making a success of who you really are and you will gain the right form of recognition.
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