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writes:my friends have now gone into this phase where they're in love with clubbing and go every friday and sat of the weekend. since they go so often they normally get free entry and bouncers dont even bother to check their id anymore. i used to go clubbing last year with other friends, and when i did most of my friends told me how stupid/slutty i was for doing it and now they are being hypocrites as they are doing it too. i recently went out with them clubbing once, and i just felt so over that entire scene. they were so excited about it and i felt so strange just watching them talk to the bouncer to let me in as he didnt know me. at the same time i feel left out and a bit out of loop, pissed off at them for being hypocritical, and rather bored because im already over that scene. should i just stick with it or find other friends to hang out with?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 May 2009):
If you are ready to settle down with a cup of cocoa and be in bed by 9pm then do it.
Either that of find other friends who like going to the cinema etc.
My sister in law is like this. She is the same age as me but refuses to come out and do anything fun when I visit because she says she did it when she was younger.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): Well you don't have to find other friends, but there are other things you could do together. Just going out for lunch or seeing something at the cinema, shopping session etc. Now and again make an effort to go clubbing with them, it can turn out to be a really good night! It's about who you're with not where you are, so if you're not enjoying their company that much anymore, maybe join some clubs so you can expand your circles. Then you can do different things with each group of friends that you all enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): At your age, lots of people are going clubbing. But I guess you can find underage girls to be your friends.
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reader, miamiheat31 +, writes (24 May 2009):
you must be quite the mature young lady to think like that, I personally find girls like that quite predictable. Attention-whores I would say.
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