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writes:So I was dating a guy and we broke up. He has another girl friend and we are just friends even though I still love him more than anything. Last night I was at his bar mitzvah and he pulled me outside and we started making out. I am talking to him right now and he said he can kiss better than he did last night and that he would prove it to me. I kinda feel bad about him having a gf but not so bad that I wouldn't do it again. All I want to know is "Is it bad for me to make out with someone else's boyfriend?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): YES
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reader, griffingirl +, writes (25 May 2009):
griffingirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe decided tonight that we're better as friends.
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (25 May 2009):
 I don't even need to read the question. We all know the answer to this one.
Yes, it's bad to make out with ANYONES boyfriend. So do not do it, it will only cause more problems in your life, more hurt.. and of course, more drama.
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reader, RaeMay +, writes (25 May 2009):
 umm... lol idk how to put this the nice way. yes its a bad thing to do. let me say it like this. if you were dating hiim again and he made out wit her, would you think it was a bad thing?
sorry for making it sound horrible but unless she doesnt care then yea its a big deal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Put yourself in her shoes. Would you like it if a boyfriend of yours made out with his ex behind your back? No? I thought so. It's bad, him being your ex and him starting it doesn't make it better. It's just as bad as making out with your best friend's boyfriend, or with any other girl's boyfriend actually. For the record, if he's doing this to her, then he's an utter jerk. Of course, you're like 13 years old, and at that age, with hormones and all, it's quite common for these things to happen, even though that still doesn't make it right.
If I were you, I would avoid this mess. This is a potential mess, you know... I'd look for a new boyfriend who wasn't a jerk, or I'd stay single. Anything in order to just avoid this mess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): I'm sure it feels good to have him attracted to you since you love him but all you've done is make yourself look bad to him. I'm guessing he broke up with you? It's sad what he's doing to his girlfriend but he won't break up with her for you now that he can have you on the side.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): You know it isn't right so sorry, your question is BS. What you should feel bad about is that you are degrading yourself by letting him use you and it shows you have little respect for yourself and so he won't respect you. If you had any chance at getting him back, this pretty much ruined it. Guys don't have much respect for girls that let them do sexual things when they have a girlfriend! In his mind, he can have you any time and doesn't have to work for it kinda like a convenience store. You've pretty much taken yourself out of the potential girlfriend arena.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): would you find it ok for your boyfriend to make out with someone else??
coz the chances are if you dont find it ok then its probly NOT ok for you to make out with someone elses boyfriend!
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