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writes:I've been having the hardest time trying to talk to my crush. Even saying "Hi." feels like the ultimate thing to do. I've liked him since the end of last year. We used to talk and goof around a bit but we were never really friends. But this year, he found out that I like him. At first, he talked to me, but I was too nervous to continue any of it. And over time, it became extremely awkward between the two of us. As in, we can't even look in each other's direction without feeling all weird. This makes a real conversation pretty impossible. But I only have less than two weeks with him, and this is our last year in Middle School. I really want to actually get somewhere with him before we go on to highschool, since there's a big chance we probably wouldn't have any classes together at all.I want to know how he feels about me, and have it come out of his own mouth. Because one of his friends (a guy that I was really mean to in elementary school) told me he that my crush didn't like me that much.I don't if he's telling the truth or not, but even if he was, I want it to come out of my crush's mouth, and hear it personally.We're both pretty semi-shy. Not shy enough to not talk at all, but shy enough to have a hard time trying to talk. Recently, he'd come over to my side of the classroom (he's the TA for that class so he can pretty much sit wherever he wants) and say "What's up." to the guy next to me, while standing over my table. Then he would walk away. One time he sat in front of me, told me the homework was easy, I said, "Oh that's homework?" he said yeah, then turned away. Just little things like that, but we can never keep it going.What are some things I can do to relax around him, so I can talk to him easier? So I can talk to him at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): my boyfriend is really shy. Before we got together we only communicated through text. We hardly ever talked in person. But last night he grabbed me and we started making out. youll get closer. just tell him you like him. maybe invite him to something where u wouldnt be alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): hey..
yea i guess you should go and talk to him.. live ur life girl.. dont let anything to stop you.. so the best way is first give him eye contact and then second go talk to him
just act natural.. and you'll be just fine..and yea he spoke to you once or several times that means there is a part of him that is onterested.. it's not like he doesnt like you at all.. if you get what i mean.
So i guess you should give it a shot.. 2 weeks left just make them the best 2 weeks in the whole year lol ;)
anyways.. if you found him interested and stuff like giving you eyes contact and talking to you too then he pretty much likes you back ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): Hey, I hate to say this and don't want to be insensitive but I don't think he feels the same. He knows you like him and didn't return the interest. Your probably a great girl and I know you are crushing on the guy but you can't make something happen when he doesn't want it to. Maybe take the summer to get over him and find a new interest or who knows, you may find a guy that is actually really interested in you! Hope I don't sound harsh but he doesn't like you like that. Some other guy will though, probably many of them, just not this one.
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