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writes:I'm 16 years old nd still a virgin. I've been called romantic and sensitive. Isn't that what all girls like? I can't seem to get a girl. Even if my life depended on it. Help!!!...Also, my friend has a cheating boyfriend. I love her more than anything. I need idea's on how to help her live a better life without her current bf.
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reader, pinkgoblin15 +, writes (26 May 2009):
 malvern couldnt of said it any better lol Well since he basically wrote everything I was gonna say.. lol I was a virgin till I was 19 otherwise this year. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin! Just wait for that special someone! Having sex and masturbating is the same for guys come on bro lol. Plus ur only 13-15 years old... jeez before the world knows it kids are gonna be getting pregnant at 10 :S
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reader, iluvsox +, writes (24 May 2009):
I'll answer your question in 3 parts.
As for the first part, being a virgin isn't all that bad. I was a virgin up until I was 15, but I lost my virginity to a girl who had a bad home-life and wanted to get pregnant so she could move in with me. It was a really bad time and she used me.
Just dont lose it in a bad way, make sure its with someone you love.
As for the second part, I'm pretty sure that every guy has a friend that's a girl who has a boyfriend not suited for her. The best thing to do would to talk to her, and let her know that you know things, and that she can choose to listen or not, but that if anything ever happens, you'll be there for her. That final part is the most important.
The final part is about you being "romantic and sensitive". Sadly, not many girls (in my age group) are looking for that really. As you get older, girls want guys who are confident (no problems there for me), cocky/funny, and fun to be around.
Granted this isn't for ALL girls, but still.... I'm known in my general area as a "helpless romantic" or something like that. I know exactly where you're coming from. Just look for a girl that appreciates that, its what I've done in the past and am trying to do now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009):
...nothing wrong with being a virgin - most people of your age lie about when it happens. so take heart - it will happen, i am sure. just relax and enjoy the wait and anticipation as much as the ride.
as for your friend just at some point tell her that you don't think he is that into her.
Star.x.
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reader, malvern  +, writes (24 May 2009):
 Most people of my age (50 upward) were virgins until their late teens or early twenties so I really wouldn't let it all bother you. It seems to have become the thing to have sex as early as possible these days. It will happen soon enough so stop worrying about it. Unfortunately you cannot help your friend to live a better life without her boyfriend. She is probrably quite happy within herself and every single one of us has to learn by 'trial and error'as we go through life. It's these experiences that make us all what we are. Just continue to be her friend and be there to support to her when she needs you.
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