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Will my parents ever forgive him?

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Question - (21 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *ayla2 writes:

Just a little backgroud if you didn't read my first question. My fiance cheated on my 3 weeks ago on a all guys trip. He told me right away and I forgave him. Our wedding is May 1. A few days ago one of his great friends posted pics of their trip on facebook, there were several pictures of my guy (totally drunk) and the girl kissing and fondling each other. Then there is a pic of the two of them walking into his hotel room with the caption "ONE LAST WILD NIGHT"", my whole family seen this and freaked out. My parents are refusing to come our our wedding.

A lot of you who responded said he should apologize to my family, so he did. My dad wouldn't listen, he kept yelling and cursing at him. The conversation ended with my bf and my dad in each others face screaming at each other then my bf broke down and started to cry. In the end he was literally begging for forgivness and my parents just walked out.

Will they ever forgive him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009):

kayla2, you have so easily forgiven him for this "incident" i know that you love him totally and have accepted his explanation. Would he be so forgiving if you messed up, if you had a hens night out and you did the dirty deed with someone else while drunk?

maybe rebecca b is right, postpone the wedding and then see.

also shouln't he be checking for any STD's, or something to that effect. You too should be careful if you do sleep with him. Just get checked out, you cannot be too careful these days. Did he know that girl?

being drunk is no excuse for cheating therefore your family is up in arms...they are also being overly protective of you because they love you and don't want the boyfriend to mess up your life. time may heal their anger at him but how are you REALLY COPING? You are anxious to get married even though your boyfriend has cheated. are you certain it won't happen again if he sets drunk again. I feel so sorry for you, why do men act like children and try to lay someone just before they get married. such a stupid prank may now cost you your happiness. your boyfriend and your marriage. where to from her??

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A female reader, rebecca_B United States +, writes (21 March 2009):

It will take alot for your parents to forgive him, not only did he cheat but his so called friends put it out there for the everyone to see. I think it would be best to postpon the wedding even if just for a few months. Most of the guest at your wedding will be whispering about what happened as you say your wedding vows.

If you truely believe it was a one time mistake then I wish you the best of luck. But remember if he was really that drunk chances are he wouldnt been able to "perform" in bed.

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