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writes:I need some advice. I am 26 female (virgin), I work with a bunch of Army guys, I have never really bothered with any of them until a couple of years ago, when this corporal started, we started talking and flirted all the time, we arranged to go out and he cancelled on me at the last minute, I never asked why (I know that was silly). Anyway after about six months we started flirting again, he wanted me to keep him company at work and I said no, he then said we wanted different things (I think he wanted sex and I wanted him as a boyfriend), we stopped talking for a bit and now we have started talking and flirting again and we snogged each other at work which was probably stupid but beause we are both attracted to each other it just kinda happened.I was happy that we had finally snogged and he said he was happy as well, but nothing else has happended since, he just says that he really enjoyed it and we will have to do it again but he only ever suggests it when he is working. Did I make a mistake thinking that he had changed his mind and wanted more than just a quickie, he is the only bloke I have felt attracted to ever, I just want him to want me, I feel so silly. HELP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): he dont feel the same way about you.read the signs.you will get more men and of a higher quality than this jack off that dont feel the same about you if you just leave him alone.do you realy want the word to get out with everyone you work with that you are easy?come on now,respect yourself!you hold all the cards and you can set the rules.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): And he doesn't want you like you want him. He wants a quickie at the office to let the day go by. You sound very inexperienced, and most men can tell that, and for this fellow that makes you his perfect candidate. He can do you when he pleases and noone will ever know. And it will be no stress on his part coz you've asked for nothing. It's a win, win for him.Leave him alone, he doesn't deserve you one bit.GL
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Unless you feel like it is ok to be used for sex, then you did not make a mistake. However, I have a feeling that you do not think it is ok: He only wants to use you to get his rocks off, he told that, and you let him do it. Yes, that certainly sounds like a big mistake to me. Also, I bet you get more attention from other troops who find out that you're easy. Next guy, will you at least make him buy you a steak before you let him bust his nuts? Have more respect for yourself. Also, if you do meet a great guy at work whom you like, do you want people to tell him that you let this other guy roger you at work for a quickie? I'm guessing not. Think.
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