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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for eleven months. im 17 and he is 19. He is the perfect boyfriend! He is attentive, affectionate, patient, caring etc. He is everything i could want to spend the rest of my life with. For the past eleven months weve spent all of our time together. And until the last month i felt so much love for him and i knew without a doubt that he was the one i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. A month ago, literally overnight, i felt like i lost all my feelings for him. The next couple of days were so hard for me all i could do was cry and wanted my feelings back. I was so happy before and thats all i wanted. I talked to my boyfriend about it and he said he would be here for me no matter what and we could work together to make it work. So for the last month i've been trying to convince myself that the nagging feeling of doubt would just go away but it hasnt.This is my first serious relationship and i dont know what i would do without my boyfriend but the last couple of days the doubting feeling has gotten stronger and i feel like there is something missing in my relationship and i dont know what it is. Is this just a normal part of a relationship? Should i stay with him? Would taking a break from him help?As weird as it sounds i cant picture my life without him but i cant imagine being happy with him right now but i want to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): you know i think that there has got to be a reason for the doubt. something that one or both of you are not saying and that is where you should start. take a good long look at what your feeling and where are the doubts coming from talk to your boy freind and share these feeling with him it may well be that there is something unhealthy about your realtionship,that is creating this doubt. but look at the emotions behinde the doubt why is it there and talk to not only your boy freind but also to your parents and freinds. do not dismiss the doubt but talk about it.
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