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writes:i think im being emotionally manipulated by a guyhes being nice one week and treats me like dirt the nextlast night he completely walked past me (last week he said i was the best girl in the world) this has been going on for a year+Im at breaking point. he was roaring in my face and flirting with any girl in the place. then he said he wants to "wait on me..and that he could really care for me".but i have to lose my virginity to someone else first :( is that not really horrible?? he was so mean..insulting the way I dance etc.. what is he doing? as i said last week he was acting like he was in love with me. guys view would be cool
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Is he not testing you out? Either that or he's a real nutcase. Personally I don't think his behaviour needs a lengthy psychological (or social) explanation, all you need to know is to keep a huge distance. Enjoy his flirting when he's nice with you, keep the hell away at all other times.
Personally I'd keep the hell away at all times. Best of luck
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (21 March 2009):
 No guy would treat you like that if they cared about you. He clearly doesn't care about you. Don't stress about him, just forget him.
You deserve a guy who will love and respect you.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Hi,
I have been there....and the man you describe could be a carbon copy of my ex & father of my child. To put this in perspective for you (long term), imagine if the two of you had a child together, and trust me, sociopathic behavior like that only gets more dangerous when any element is added to the mix. My advice: RUN! Let him know gently it's not working out, and then be stronger than you have EVER been and ride out the emotional loss with friends and family. I hope that helps.
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