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writes:hi i just lost a baby to my ex we split up when i was pregnant as he was to obsessive and never wanted me to go out with my friends. im now withanother guy and he is with another girl. and im really confused because i cannot stop thinking about him and i asked him up to tzlk the other night and we kissed i feel so bad but at the same time i really want back with him he says he still loves me and i still love him but i also have strong feelings for my current boyfriend im sooo jealou off his new girlfriend i really dont like her and he doesnt want me texting when she with him. i dont know whats going on in my head at the minute its so messed up. i just want back with him but i dont know what to do about my current boyfriend i really dont want to hurt him. any advice on what i should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): but its what you want not your friends.
you have to decide which one you want. Nobody can decide for you.
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reader, kirsty92xxox +, writes (23 March 2009):
kirsty92xxox is verified as being by the original poster of the question but i do really like my current and im in love with my ex.
i do need time to think about things but i hate being on my own as i only think about the baby and i dont want to talk about it with friends as half of them want me to get back with my ex and the others want me to stay with my current.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): well two things here - the current boyfriend you don't want ...so get rid of him. wrong to keep him for no reason.
then the feelings see the earlier answer - you are feeling hurt and scare etc. so no wonder its in your head.
i think you need time away from them both and think about your future and what you want.
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reader, kirsty92xxox +, writes (22 March 2009):
kirsty92xxox is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou reli were good help.
see i always new my current boyfriend and he treats me so well so i thought well we both like eachother so why not really.i duno what to do now i no that hes lying to me i just want my ex back but he wouldnt listen to me when i say im not going tobreak his heart again.
yea i had a miscarriage not sure what happened but i think thats making things worse cus i think of the baby everyday so it leads on to thinking about my ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): a couple of thoughts...
stop thinking about him - ok what's 343 +242592/34 *8 ?? give me the answer - whilst you are doing that you aren't thinking about him.... so think of something else - your favourite band and being on stage with them, travelling the world. keep you head busy - really busy and if all else fails do math...
serial boyfriends - great advice - don't jump from one boy friend to the next and certainly don't jump into bed with them for a while (are you that easy?). have time in between to sort head out... see answer to thinking.
the pregnancy - what happened? No silly i didn't mean to cause it - afterwards, did you loose it?
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