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writes:i work as an ofw and luckily i have families where i was now.I live in an apartment together with my family..my question is well i know in the eyes of GOD it is wrong to have an affair to someone who is committed but I love him..I am single and i already gave up everything to him because i know within my heart that I love him so much, but i cant take the fact that he is committed and I know that he is a responsible man to his wife..not until he met me so i felt like i was the one to be blame but he said he loves me too..what will i do then? its hard for me to give him up but my conscience is bothering me and i dont want to hurt anybody..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): I suggest you read all posts concerning "Totally in Love" story and the responses she got. This would open up your eyes to the real situation of being in love with a married man.
Yes, a real eye opener, not pretty but shows you the harsh reality of life with a married man and who gets blamed. Why it's the lover like you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): I am in the same position as you but I was married with 3 kids. Because of this love, I decided to divorce my husband who did wrong to me many times. In all the years of my marriage, he has not loved me but neglected me and flings around because of his entertainment requirements in his job.However painful you are in, you must know that he will not leave his family for you. Not unless you are sure about him not leaving you in the long run, my suggestion is to leave him. Suggest to him to get you an apartment to see if he is committed to you. If he agrees, you can then make your own consideration if you love him. I am not talking about being greedy for monetary gains. But if he is serious, he has to consider for you too.You mentioned that you are single. Are you going to have kids? If you are thinking along that line, my suggestion is to leave him and find another single and available man to fall in love again. You will feel happier that way, believe me.
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