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writes:A while ago i had posted that my sis phoned me in tears to tell me that her so called 'man' said he wouldnt mind a threesome with me and her. Some guys came back and said it aint a big deal, the thing is its put a strain on my relationship my boyfriend is understandably peeved off to the max. Sorry this will be long. Well a week ago, i think i went off at my sistas guy, thanking him for causing an arguement, and all he could do was laugh, like its just so funny. Tonight my sista invited me over, and its my mums house but yet he kept trying to start an arguement so id leave my dad phoned my boyfriend and said i took off and i caused the arguement i live in adelaide i had to walk from T to Cr i left at 6 and got home at 9. How is this all my fault i never said it, it was all him im done should i forget i ever had a sister just to stop all this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): This is the stupidest, craziest thing I've ever heard. Your sister's boyfriend wants you to join them for sex? That's just gross. What's even more offensive is your sister didn't kick his disgusting @$$ to the curb right that minute. You have every right to be angry and offended. Whatever stupid guys on this site said it was no big deal are just also being complete jerks. Don't even listen to them. Your sister was in tears so the idea obviously upset her as well. I think what you need to do is call your sister, tell her you love her very much, and tell her that she needs to dump this guy immediately because he obviously has no respect for her or her family. Then just calmly explain to her that you are happy to be there for her, but you are not interested in any further contact with her vile boyfriend and don't show up to functions where he will be.
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (21 March 2009):
 It'll all blow over... Everyone involved is blowing this out of proportion.
Except your sister- how the @#$# could he even suggest something like that? I can't believe your dad would even allow him in the house-he's so disrespectful!!
And how can your bf be angry with you?? Thats not fair!
But it was not tactful of you to blow up at him... it might've been wiser just to keep your distance from him- I know you were trying to help, but see what it caused? Sorry girl.
Can't believe the men just let you walk that far... that late.. Sis!
Just breathe - u can't get rid of family. this'll pass...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): I think you should tell your dad the truth, and give your sister time to realize this guy is a loser! Keep your distance until she is over this jerk!
I'm sure your sister is hurt by his comments and it will take her time to figure out that her anger needs to be directed at him. Give her that time. But no, don't ever forget you have a sister!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Thanks star but my dad knows he just doesnt care he let the man that raped me at 6 years old get away with it he gave him his trailer so he could take off to perth i know thats a totally seperate problem but it makes me wonder if my dad cares about my feelings or if im just here because he has no choice. From poster of question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009):
its not your fault - tell your dad what happened then sparks will fly.
her boyfriend is a a tosser. tell her to dump him. he just wants a sexual conquest badge. your sister should know better than to tell you that stuff and should dump him for suggesting it to her.
Hugs, Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): 1605 your post was so not helpful, read the whole thing and help on the actual question or dont answer at all. From poster of question
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