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*enny 1494
writes:I have a problem. I've been in love with my best guy friend for 4 years now and lately things have got much better relationship wise between us and he's been flirting with me alot and stroking my leg in class, so i'm not sure if he likes me or not. HOWEVER -i also like this otherguy, no where near as guy 1 but still quite alot and he flirts with me alot so i think he likes me....if only it was that simple..guy 2 has a twin brother who is REALlY nice and i now like him as well exactly th same amount as his brotheri know what your thinking "omg the tart" but actually i don't fall for guys easily so this has been kinda tough for meso basically i have three guys who are ALL flirting with me and i don't know who to chose and my best girl friend fancies one of the twins..........i don't know what to do help please i know it was long but i'd really appreciate your help ty xxxxxxx
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reader, AskMelissa  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 I say go with one of the twins. You dont want to ruin your relationship with your best friend. Inless you guys get to a point where you think you can make it work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): Put two of the names in a hat...One twin is out of the picture because your friend is interested in him. So close your eyes, pick one and go for it! No, seriously give it more time, you're not committed to any of them, so get to know them better. The fact that you like all of them equally proves that you don't know them well enough to decide. Get to know them...keep it casual. Don't be in a hurry to commit to anyone, you are so young. Enjoy the attention, and discover which one you have the most in common with. Which one makes you laugh out loud! Which one is the most dependable, and honest. Which one is there for you when you are feeling down...etc, etc...
That is what relationships are all about, because once the initial attraction becomes mundane, you need a lot more than a hot appearance!
Good Luck and consider yourself very lucky to have choices!
Britt
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): guys flirt all the time and will push it as far as you let them and most of the time they have no intention of you being their girlfriend. Have any of them asked you out or call you on the phone? Right now it doesnt seem you really need to choose because none of them have really asked you to be their girfriend or do more than just flirt. The guy stroking your leg in class is really being disrespectful and he's probably not thinking he wants to be with you other than sexually. Other than that, just have fun flirting and getting to know these guys and who knows, maybe one will like you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Enjoy all the positive attention, but don't be greedy! You may end up with none of them.
If your friend likes one of the twins, tell her to go for him...you can't possibly juggle all three of them. Only you can make up your mind who you want to be with, just weigh all the pros and cons and come up with the best one for you.
Good Luck!
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reader, Benny 1494 +, writes (21 March 2009):
Benny 1494 is verified as being by the original poster of the question but i don't know which one to choose, my firend says that if the twin likes me then go for it as she'd be happy for me.
but i like them all and i can;'t make a decision as i think i'd be happy with all of them :/
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reader, maeisforlovers16  +, writes (21 March 2009):
 You need to pick one. I'm sorry but no one can choose the best guy for you. Since your best friend likes one of the twins, that twin is off limits. You always choose your bud over a guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Hmmmm.....you are young and have plenty of time to explore relatioships, however, starting out with a mentally healthy guy who will treat you like a Goddess isthe one to choose. I'm not an expert, but I'm 33 and wish that I'd chosen better guys at that age because it does lay the foundation for future love interests.
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