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30-35,
*ayna
writes:There is this guy in my school that I really like. When I walk past his locker if he is with friends they will hit him or something then he will quickly glance at me and turn away. We have one class together and he sits in front of me. He will sit on my desk until I walk into class and then he will finally get up. Or he blocked the isle so that I would have to brush up against him to get to my desk. He leans on my desk alot or he leans back like he is trying to crack his back, but he will lean so far back he almost hits my head with his. Then I catch him sneeking looks back at me. When he sees me looking he will act like he was looking out the window or at the kid behind me. When I'm around him his friends will pick on him. I have had his one friend in at least one class every semester since freshman year and he never spoke to me until now, but he only talks to me when the kid I like is around. Then one day his friend made a joke about me being really smart and then he said he was only kidding. The guy I like said "yeah you better be". But he said it real quietly like he only wanted me to hear him say it. The only thing is that he won't talk to me. He will talk to other girls in class just not me. Like a couple weeks ago he needed the notes. He asked every one around us for the notes except for me. He kept looking at me like he wanted to ask me. I was just about to offer him the notes when he walked to the other side of the room to ask someone else. After class he will wait around until I'm leaving then in the hallway he will slow down until I am walking next to him. But he won't say one word to me. When I talk to his friends he stares at me while I am talking. He sends mixed signals. We are both extremely shy and I don't want to make the first move. Are these signs that he likes me? Why won't he talk to me at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Yeah, layna, he's got it bad. He doesn't know what to do. He may be funny and witty and open with others, but he is tongue-tied around you. Typical crush behavior. It is not an easy thing. Somebody usually has to break the ice wall. You say you are also a shy person. And it is usually expected that the guy should make the first move in a "situation" like this. But, many guys are also very shy. I can't give you any real "program" to make things move faster. I would just say to be as friendly as you can and try to make some attempts at casual conversation. Try to use something humorous if you can. Laughter is a great stress reliever. Best wishes, hon.
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reader, maleuser  +, writes (21 March 2009):
He is definitely in love with u because he doesn't look shy, but he is when he see u.
To make guy like this talk try to make him feel like he is special, when you see him with his friends stop and ignore his all friends and talk to him, try to make any jokes with him. he doesn't look shy, but
and try to take care of him, he want a little sign from u.
by time he will feel confidence and take the first step. good luck.
please make me up to date with your problem. i really want to know what will happen.
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