A
male
age
30-35,
*ndrew loves hali
writes:Hi, I'm 15 almost and my ex and I broke up like a week ago or so and she has hurt me a lot by cheating on me with her ex that cheated on her. She got drunk and didn't tell me and she smoked for over 3 years now and she just told me a couple weeks ago. I was concerned for her and didn't want anything to happen to her but she said I shouldn't care cause it doesn't concern me in any way but anyway, she broke up with me.The first 2 days were hard but now I feel fine like I don't need her in my life and I've never felt that way. I mean sometimes I'll cry and think about what I lost but I think about what I gained. Is it okay for me to feel this way??? or should I be sad??? She was my first love but I think I love someone else now.
View related questions:
broke up, drunk, her ex, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Yes it's normal. Stop analyzing why you got over her so fast and be grateful. Some people take forever and some don't skip a beat.
A
male
reader, Mr Me +, writes (21 March 2009):
 Go have fun exploring your love for the new girl.
This other girl just sounds like trouble all around. Cheating with the ex who cheated on her, drinking heavily & smoking at 15, and overall just not interested in your care for her (in other words, she's not reciprocating the care you have for her).
You'll love and you'll lose love in life. Yeah, you will feel sad and it may take time to get over her depending on how deeply you cared for her. But, it's obviously time to move on and the time will pass.
Enjoy the fun that comes along with starting a new relationship with the other girl!! :D
...............................
|
