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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a bit of a bad situation here. Well my boyfriend and I share an apt I'm 7 months pregnant and our relationship has just gone to shit. He hasn't helped me with any of the prenatal care etc. I lost my job as a bartender because of the pregnancy and I'm finding it difficult to find another job. Meanwhile I just think the enviroment wouldn't be good for a child and not to mention I found out too late for an abortion. So because I wanna give the child up for adoption he's come at me saying I'm a whore I'm the worst person in the world and he hoped I died. Yet won't talk about anything just says go away. This has been going on for a month with some patches where we get along now our home is more or less ww3. He won't pay me for his share of the bills so I turn off his phone and back and forth etc. But he won't leave and I can't afford to leave. Does anyone have any suggestions that may help us be civil?without doing something too rash?
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reader, rcn +, writes (22 March 2009):
 What you decide to do as far as your child, is your business, but this behavior in your home is completely inappropriate. This is not about an environment to raise a child, but it's not an environment you need to be in either.
He needs to leave, be civil or you need to seek a civil protection order, which demands he vacates the home. NO ONE has the right to call you these names, and create a difficult environment for you to love. Home is suppose to be a place to go to feel secure and protected. When you're not receiving that, and it's the opposite, you need to make a change, and don't wait to do so.
By the way, if you were a whore, you would have charged for your services.
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