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male
age
30-35,
*otmoney13
writes:Hey you all know i ama gay guy and i am in total love with one of my straight friendsOkay the situation, which i thought was getting better, was actually getting much worse. okay so i think im in love with one of my friends but the problem is that he has a girlfriend, and that he's obviousley off limits. And i cant help but think that its incredeibaly unfair that i have these feelings for him and cant do anything about it. I've had these feelings since about september and i hate it because i want to be over him so badley! even though i get all the amazing feelings when i hang around and talk to him, i also get the completely painful feelings when i see that his arm is around someone else, and i cant help but feel all the jelousy and hatered and sadness when i see that sight! i just hate the feeling, because i cant or wont do anything to stop myself from being overwhelemed with the torture.okay back to the question! is there anyway that i can help myself to get over him, so that i can stop feeling these emotions? because ocviously i cant really tell him that i've had feelings for him since we met.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): to help yourself,you have to understand your feelings.you say you love this guy but his happiness with another makes you feel bad.i believe you have a crush on this guy which will pass in time.you will find that you will have lots of crushes while in your teens same as everyone else of your age.one day you will fall in love with the right person who will also love you.
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