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writes:I ended it with my boyfriend because (even though I'm totally mad about him) the way he treated me was not good enough. He never took me out, or bothered introducing me to his friends. He would take without giving and I don't think he was that into me as I was into him.We were going out for about 5 months but it was quite intense and its like I've known him for years.I miss him like crazy. I have really strong feelings for him. I feel so sad about not being with him and it hurts to know he is probably not even that bothered about it. I've never felt this down over a guy....if you have been in this situation before, how long will it take me to get over him??? Reply to this Question
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (21 March 2009):
 Read "He's Just Not That Into You" Have a good laugh... Part of your longing for him is probably the fact that you've known him for a while. Bet you didn't expect that kind of behaviour from him... Sorry girl. Its so dissapointing :( All I can say is, dive it time...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): get over.... lol thats a good one...get over... you never truly get over it. you learn to push it from your mind and reenforce yourself so its better next time.....you deserve a lot better.
Think of him as training for the real thing....:)
Now the problem is you are thinking - go think of something else - where would you go on holiday if you had 5 stops to make and why? and if it asked you to do it in the 1800s? design your best garden in the world. think of anything... absolutely anything but him- keep your head moving....
but i rewind my answer a little - it will go when you meet someone else who loves you and does the good things you deserve.
Star.x.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (21 March 2009):
 Well done for getting rid of the prat! Unfortunately we can't just pin a time and date of when you will be over him.
Just go out have fun and meet new people and realise how much better off you are with out him.
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