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Why is my life so depressing? Is it a curse?

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Question - (21 March 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Netherlands Antilles age 41-50, *hat lift of me writes:

Dear Cupid, I am in need a your sound advice on what to do... I am so depressed now. I am in a relationship for 8 years now the guy never shows me he loves me, we live together and all he ever need from me is just sex and someone to take care of the house like cook clean etc... he never takes me out not even tells how much he loves and appreciates me.. I now have a child for him thinking in doing so he would love me but he didn't, he treats me so bad even hits me when I was carrying his child. I was so depressed and now I am still.

After having the child I have to go to seek for a job, when the child was 11 weeks old because he never used to care for me in the house, just his own needs which is sex and to keep his house and clothes clean, he don't talk to me with love he doesn't do nice things, I don't know know what to do. My parents are not loving either, they have treated me bad from when I was a child. I used to live from aunts to aunts never grew up to knowing what is it to live in a loving caring life. I lived with so much rejection as a teen and no one seems to love me... Is it a curse??

I am not educated either so I could get a good job, I don't know what to do help please... This is something that happened last night to me - I met a guy and he shows me love, he took me out even though I'm living with this next guy. This new guy told me he has a girlfriend and she is carrying his child, we met a week now and I am so longing for love and affection, we started to kiss, then we had sex. I don't know what to do because he is with ths girl and she is carrying his child. I feel even more deppressed and messed up and confused. I don't know what to do. I just long to be loved and appreciated but no one seems to love me and I've felt so all alone and confused not knowing what steps to take and where to go, what to do right. Now I'm only working 2 days a week, I have not much money to go on my own help help please...

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