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Question - (21 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How many fingers should a guy be able to get into a girl's vagina when fingering her? Is it possible she could be too "tight" to even get one in?

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (22 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntWell it's not all about trying to get as many fingers as possible, this is all part of the stupid myth that girls get turned on by something huge in there. What you need to do is find her clitoris which can be stimulate with one finger and its not inside her vagina.

I think all teenage boys have at some stage tried to put as many fingers in to a girl and stabbed away while she is not enjoying it at all.

Get your girlfriend to show you what she likes rather than trying to fist her as not many girls like this kind of foreplay!

If she is very very tight it might be that she is just terrified and not turned on by you.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (22 March 2009):

DoubleM agony auntOne or two at first, depending on physical variations. Penetration only temporarily expands a vagina, contrary to some assumptions I have read on this Web site and elsewhere. The vagina simply does not permanently stretch much early in life, at least until giving birth. Older and larger women do tend to loosen. The important consideration here is to have prolonged foreplay, which induces natural lubrication, prior to a man inserting a finger. Or use water-based sexual lubricant.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

Every girl is differant, you should be able to get one in atleast unless you have large fingers, it wont be as tight after the first time

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