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writes:Maybe someone can help me understand this.why is it that when men want to end a relationship they act like jerk/assholes to make you leave them.and when you do and have moved on without them, they always come running back crying to get a second chance. That they made a mistake..yadayada. You give it to them, and sure enough they F it up again. Everytime. I have 3 exes still contacting me and i wish they would have the respect to let me move on because it was them that screwed it up by either, cheating, lying, or being a class act jerk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): men who are jerks and assholes just want what they cant have. So when they break it off, agree with them. Don't give them what they want and you will make them crumble for it.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (21 March 2009):
 Because you take them back, you need to just tell them NO, or words to that effect, if a guy knows he can use you as a plan B he will.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 March 2009):
It's because none of these men have respect for women as they are used to their girlfriends just taking their crap.
When you stand up to them and tell them to bugger off and never speak to them again, then suddenly you get promoted to some kind of new wonderful creature who deserves respect and is amazing.
But if you are daft enough to take them back then you obviously weren't serious and then therefore go back to being a normal doormat girl.
It's stupid and says a lot about their self esteem that they want someone who'll treat them like crap instead.
Either way, guy's like that never change, so just keep dumping them until you find a guy who has a high enough IQ to think "Oh, I really like this girl... perhaps I should be NICE to her!"
You just have to pity your ex's and tell them that you are flattered that they are willing to look so pathetic, but it will NEVER work, and you will NEVER so much as speak to them face to face again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009):
i agree with you - when its over they should move over, but sometimes you realise what you had was much better than you realised at the time....
and because they want to have sex with you....
if it helps listen to the Lily Allen song "smile" the lyrics are great :)
Hugs, Star.x.
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