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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, I have been in love with a girl for the last three years actually she proposed to me and I clear every thing to her straight forward and everything is smooth after getting in the relationship. The last seven months we have had sex a lot, we know each other quite clear and planned to get married and unfotunately we both met with a road accident and she had to stay in hospital for 15 days and after discharging from the hospital she used to start calling and texting me again. Meanwhile her parents threatend me said it is impossible but she was on her words and four next months went calling on whole days and after that she pushed her feet back a little and started preparation for her higher studies to us but after a month at a time she got her placement in a local university and she called me to meet her and next month we used to meet again and had sex. I became over possessive coz I don't want to lose her ever, and cleared with her that if she won't talk to her parents about marriage I will tell them everything coz she told me she would get married that month but she refused that she can't coz she needs more time. Her aunt who is in the US called me and told that she would get married to me but I need to give her time and she's calling me again but I cleared with her that I can't wait anymore coz I don't want to go anywhere in this world coz she was making a plan to go for US after her studies and she herself told her family if she would not marry me then he would exploit her and her family went crazy! That was all rubbish which I can't do for my love coz I love her madly deeply emotionally and I stopped everything coz now I could understand that she betrayed me and went to another city for the next eight months and did not call her back coz we both did not have each others phone no's.Right from our fight she is coming on my orkut account every now and then coz I can find her name and profile ID on my account but I never hit her account back and one day I came to meet her she just behaved as if she don't know me, I didn't say anything and went from there. After seven days she was again hitting on my account and I told her don't come on my account coz I am not worthy of you coz now you are at higher level and I don't want to hurt or meet you, you go and live your life but she didn't stop, she is still coming on my account till the date actually. I am confused about this girl coz I love her very much, I couldn't see my life without her, she IS my life, in fact we got married no one knows............ Please help me coz I am feeling emotionally raped coz now my family condition is not good as it used to be and my father is not well but still she is playing with my emotions... I can't verify does she still love me or what has she got to prove... Please help.......!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question
hi i am just asking again to Gina only not any one else, actually her aunt called me to just let me know that she
is really very emotional and will get marry to only you atlest a year ago and she dint move for eight months i
moved to the other city for my job coz i thought this is over and i should forget this and constrate my future,
but as i told you she was coming on my social gethering website account i thought she still have some emotions
but she behaved like any other gilr if she meets this kind of situation on the other day, i can understand...!
and we got married, it mean we were alone at that time in a tample,she said that she need time and this step
will tell you that i am reliable to you coz here in india we call marry some thing else if we ppl take three round
of a god statue or a holy book we call a marrige...she knows......and her aunt could understand and i dint call
from the other city, i had my attitude problem and waite till she dont write or speak anything to me but i can
understand this coz whenever we both fought we used to come on orkut page to tell other that we are angry and
come and call and this time i dint just to know that she still love me or not and she must have her attitude so
what should i do, let her keep coming on my account as it is or should go ahead to call her to make my self
clear that i still love her and i can understand and we still go ahead or aks her why you are coming on my
account........coz i love her very much......and i am writing to you only coz you gave me some thing logic and pls mam how i can get her back from this situation....pls
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Actually, Star, I don't think coz is a real word! But I enjoyed the humor!
To the Questioner: I have no idea what you are talking about either. It sounds like she is just not into you...move on!!!
ps: You have no idea what it feels like to be emotionally raped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): what are you talking about. How old are you - the word coz 400 times in a post. sigh. i would leave you for that alone.
ok picking through it.....
she isn't interested. so what if she goes over your page it means nothing. move on and grow up.
you can ask her ? one last time - but really she isn't interested.
Star.x.
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