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30-35,
*ophomore Slump
writes:I've been talking to a guy on MSN, my friend introduced me to him, he's friend's with her sisters boyfriend, and I really, really like him, but I'm not sure if it's mutual. The conversations we have are totally random, anything from ice cream wedding cakes being the secret to a great marriage, to how awesome it'd be if an emo government took over the world (O_o) .. we just like, mess around when we chat, it's never really serious or about personal stuff. I'm constantly laughing when we talk, which is fantabulous, but it's always me who initiates conversations, which makes me think he's just not that interested. I decided to leave it up to him to start chatting, which I've done twice, and both times he's logged out after an hour or such without saying a word. Yet, when I do message him, he answers straight away. Weirdness!The next time my friend saw him, she asked him if he was single, he laughed, said he was and asked why she wanted to know. Not wanting him to think *she* liked him, she admitted that I was the one who was interested in knowing (but she swears he wasn't convinced she was telling the truth). The next day, he added me to Facebook and we've been talking on MSN since then. So, given that he thinks/knows I have a crush on him, would he seriously make no effort to get to know me better if he felt the same way? It's weird, 'cos he was the one that added me knowing this, he always replies to messages, yet I get the feeling he's just uberly sociable and/or doesn't want to be rude. Idk, it'd just be nice if he were the one to send the first message sometimes, then I'd know for definite that he wants to talk to me, and isn't just replying out of politeness.So, what's his deal? And what should I do? Boys really confuse me sometimes =/xP.S. I'm away from home for another 2/3 weeks, so talking face-to-face is impossible until then, and the reason I'm stuck trying to figure him out via his typing skills. Hmph! =[
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): You could try leaving it instead of contacting him and wait for him to contact you. That would mean waiting. Or you could ask him outright if he likes you and wants to meet up. There is the risk he just wants to email.The third option is keep going on how you are, but they you are just prolonging the agony of wondering!
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (21 March 2009):
 Just tell him you like him ask him out, if he's not interested I'm sure he won't take the piss as he sounds like a nice guy.
Keep in touch with him while you are away then ask to meet up when you get home and see what happens.
But if you do get together please don't form an Emo government, the music would be great but the press releases would be written in very bad poetry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): why not talk to him and say shall we meet up. and tall him you fancy him.
Star.x.
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