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writes: Okay um where to start... I started masturbating about a year ago and I mostly like the clit stimulation. But lately I have been craving something in me. If you know what I mean. I am a virgin and I really want to, no WILL stay that way until I'm married. Once a while back I tryed this 8 inch 2 inch wide pen and is did nothing for me. But now I have this craving for penis and I can't help it. I think maybe a dildo would do it. So my questions are: 1)Does this sound like a really stupid way to help me? 2)Is there a way to get one without the rent's knowing/finding out?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (20 March 2009):
Hey, you are aware that a dildo will take your virginity in the traditional sense?
If you are waiting for marriage for religious reasons then you might want to take that into consideration.
I know we all get the feeling of wanting a guy up there, but trust me when I say that although the feelings are really bad at your age with all the hormones running round, NOT acting on it is the thing to do most of the time.
This feeling is why we get so many girls your age saying "i am reddy 4 sex"
I'm not a fan of waiting for marriage myself but I don't know your reasons so I'm not going to judge. if you don't care about your hymen and just want to be a virgin in the sense that you've not had a guy up there then yes, go to a sex shop and hope that they will serve you.
Other than that get some condoms and a small rolling pin or something from a kitchen shop.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (20 March 2009):
1) a dildo or vibrator will help you along just fine. Just be careful, it may tear your hymen (if it hasn't been already).
2) The only way you can really get one, from what I understand, is if you're 18. If you have a very good friend who is 18, or if they have a sister who is and you're comfortable asking, then see if they can pick one up for you. Really, there's no shame. If it's a friend's older, cooler sister, she'll probably get a big kick out of picking one out for you. it'll only cost $20 max for a run of the line piece.
Hope that helps! I live in Vegas, and you could probably just stand outside the door of a sex shop and have someone run in and get you one. Not sure how things are where you live.
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