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Advice needed! How do I get her to have sex with them and maybe let me watch?

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Question - (20 March 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so... I've had this fantasy for a while now. I want to see my girlfriend have sex with other people (guys, girls it don't matter.) How do I get her to have sex with them and maybe let me watch?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

agree with Jessica.

Talk to her! its the only way to know. If she says no then its NO.

Star.x.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

agree with Jessica.

Talk to her! its the only way to know. If she says no then its NO.

Star.x.

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A female reader, Tazmin United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2009):

Tazmin agony auntWell you are just a sick person dont make her do it inless she wants to and there is many clubs and porn sites like try redtube and insted of live sex you can see people have sex on the pc.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

You don't 'get her' to do it. You discuss the possibilities with her and see what she would love to do. If you force someone young to do something like that, she might regret it and it could be a scar on her for life. There are lots of ways a guy like you can fulfil this fantasy that does not involve making your girlfriend do something she might not want to. There are clubs, groups, porn etc - look on the internet and find something local to you. Overall try not to be quite consumed by what YOU want.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

This is your fantasy not hers. Ask her if she is game for it and if she isnt then you will just have to keep it as your fantasy. Dont force her to participate just to please you - that would be selfish.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (20 March 2009):

DoubleM agony auntMust admit that I agree with "jessica04." If your girl is very sexual and you are both rather adventurous and very open, just ask her if she would enjoy or readily agree with such a scenario. Some girls will do about anything, bless their hearts.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (20 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntWell, have you asked her if she would be up for it?

If she has no interest in having sex with someone else, then don't push the subject. It will only make her feel more uncomfortable, and possibly feel like she isn't enough for you sexually.

Just tell her what you have been thinking and ask what she thinks about it. You never know until you try.

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