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I think I am attracted to both male and female

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Question - (20 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *hocolatex writes:

today i was sitting on my computer around 6:30, and i started crying but i didn't know why and i was properly crying on the floor in my school stuff i suddenly realized why, i finally acknowledged, i might be a lesbian or bisexual because up until recently i had been having dreams about girls and looking at girls in a different way, so i texted my life-long friend, Emilio in English and told him i needed to tell him something he said what and i said 'i think i might like girls', and he didn't say anything and i was panicking again, close to tears.

he then calmed me down and said 'do you want me to come to yours so we can talk' and i said 'no i need to think' so the rest of the day was a blur until now when im writing this, please help me i need to know what to and don't say what does your heart say, because i think the only way i can no for sure is if i kiss a girl and a boy but what if i like them both. Do you have to be someone to be bi? what do i tell my friends? i really don't no what to do

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (21 March 2009):

Hun, this happens to millions of teenagers all the time.

Put "I think I might be Bi" into the search box at the top of the dearcupid.org homepage and you will see hundreds of other teens with the same problem as you.

Read them and the advice they have been given and you'll feel a lot better.

The chances are that it's just your hormones kicking in. They are making your body double in size so they will have some effect on your brain!

Good Luck!! xx

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