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writes:I fancy my friend. Hey all. I'm 16 and I have always fancied my friend. She knew how I felt before but she was going out with someone at the time. Afterwards we talked about it and she said she doesn't want to go out with me because she doesn't want to ruin the friendship. But then afterwards she said never say never. This was a while ago. I don't know what else to do. I mean, i'm still here for her as a friend. But from the moment I saw her, I thought heaven was missing an angel. I really like this girl. I don't know what to do though, because i'm not sure if she likes me the same way. We fell out a few months ago and just started talking again. I still feel the same. So yeah any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (20 March 2009):
It's not fair of her to lead you on like this.
Tell her you like her as more than a friend and you thought it'd be ok this time but you still feel the same. Tell her it's too painful to spend all this time with her wanting someone you can never have.
So if she wants to give things a go, then great, but if not then you can't be as close to her as you want as you'll just end up getting hurt.
Good Luck!! xx
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