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writes:I don't know what to do - Me and this guy at work have been flirting since he arrived - after several missed opportunties and we finally kissed (about a year of flirting) he just wants friends with benefits I really want more because I like him so much.However, this other guy has showed an interest in me, he seems nice but I am not sure what my "friend" will think if I went out with this other guy. I want my "friend" to ask me out properly because I would soooo be his girlfriend, do you think I should text him and ask him what to do and if so how could I word it so he knew I really wanted him and then at least I would know that he was either cool with it or not, so at least I could try and move on.
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reader, anoms +, writes (20 March 2009):
 instead of putting all this effort into making him jealous and pretending you like somone else i have a better idea.. go ask this guy at work if he likes you! it cant be that difficult considering you both flirt and kissed in the past, gudluk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): just move on with your life start dating the other guy. Other guy will hear about this and may say something to which you can reply I'd hoped it'd be me and you but i'm not will to be just a friend with benifits so i thought i'd date him. He might then want to date or he'll accept you guys are done.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (20 March 2009):
 I think I would just tell him straight up that another guy is interested in you and if he doesn't feel ready to take the relationship further then you're going to explore things with this other guy, don't beat around the bush and don't try to mske him jealous, if he likes you then he likes you and if he doesn't well then, there's not much point in trying to make him.
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