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writes:Help, I have been dating a guy who I just clicked with for the past 6 weeks and we have had a lot of fun. He was calling me all last week saying he could not wait to see me and that he smiles just thinking about me, to letting me down on a date as he was too hungover from the night before, to texting me to say he would kick himself if he cocked it up and messaging me to apologise for letting me down.Now he is just blatantly ignoring me. I just don't get it and am upset that I thought he really liked me to suddenly treating me like this. I text him to say I thought he was rude but still no reply. I just don't understand what changed and I feel so upset cos he made it so clear from the beginning how much he liked me. I have deleted his number so that I can't text him any more but just feel so confused and upset. Any advice I would love to hear from you. xx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (20 March 2009):
 i've been there he is probably ignoring you until you get the message which is unfair i've had that done!
your right in deleteing him number good on you!
just leave it for now if he wants to contact you fine but don't contact back!!
you want to show him that he doesn't deserve you!!
he shouldn't of messed you about not like that! it's very unfair!!
chin up :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): Been there, going through a similiar situation. You know we can rack our brain to try to understand what men are thinking and why they do what they do. And, most times we never come up with answer. Like me I was hoping someone could say something that would bring clarity. As women we have to be very careful when we are dating, we have to not allow our emotions to get attached to his words. Actions always tell the story best. In your case it seems like he was into you. So you probably went on that, which most of us do. But just because he had fun, doesn't mean anything more then that. You know, I am realizing that 3 months usually gives you a true idea where a man is coming from. He usually will start "acting up" within that time period. So hopefully you didn't sleep with him. But if you did, don't beat yourself up. Just do your best not to spend to much time trying to get answers. Because that's what keeps us holding on longer then we need too. Try your best to keep busy, cry if you have too, write in a journal. But know at the end of the day he is not treating you the way you deserve to be treating. And, its best to continue to cut the ties. Remember to call a friend when you get the urge to call him. Sadly, men always call back (try not to hold on to this), because usually if they call back they want to just waste your time some more. It usually doesn't change. Be strong babe!!!
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