A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend refuses to wear condoms and I'm afraid i might get pregnant if he doesn't my friend told me about different woman condoms would you suggest woman condoms if not what can i do
View related questions:
condom Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): a pleasure to (hopefully) help - let us know how it works out what he says....
hugs, Star.x.
A
male
reader, answeringmachine +, writes (21 March 2009):
I'm glad we could help, let us know how it goes.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys that helped I'm going out with him tonight and i will try to talk to him
...............................
A
female
reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (20 March 2009):
Any guy that REFUSES to wear condoms obviously doesn't give a crap about you.
And you'd be very sad and stupid if you have sex with a guy that doesn't even care about you.
Tell him that he's a loser and will end up with diseases and 19 kids and you can do better than someone like that.
Good Luck!! xx
...............................
A
female
reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (20 March 2009):
 Beware of a guy that refuses to wear condoms. Ask yourself, how many other ladies did he refuse to wear condoms with? How many of them had STD's? Ooo, scarey. Tell him if he won't wear one, he needs to go get tested with you present. If he's clean, maybe a birth control pill is your best bet. Female condoms are not fun, he won't like them either.
...............................
A
male
reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (20 March 2009):
 Don't have sex with him, and tell him if he puts it anywhere near you with out one you have not consented to sex and it is therefore rape!
The female condom is a bit like trying to make love to a plastic bag!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): tell him you have herpes.bet he wears one then...
the femidom is a bit mad - but might work.
I would talk to him and say how many partners has he had and if he had any STI's and if they had any or their other partners, or their other partners?
find out why - i had problems, they would rip etc. then i had the bright idea of changing brand and it was a lot better - they fitted. the extra safe ones are best....
failing all that keep your clothes on.
Star.x.
...............................
A
male
reader, answeringmachine +, writes (20 March 2009):
If he can't respect you enough to wear them if you want him to, then don't sleep with him. He's your boyfriend, but that doesn't give him the right to just do whatever, and you don't deserve that either.
...............................
|
