A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hello friends ....i am in the red alert zone and need to take some step fast...i have a girlfriend since one year and she's really creepy !! she always brings "u and me" in everything that comes across us. guys dont find her very attactive and just like her as friends because of her supportive and generous attitude ...she has never had any boyfriend in her life and i am her first love so she is kinda extremely possessive and hardly gives me any space because she says she always misses me and wats me and only me everytime... i am kinda trapped in her net and she really sucks the life out of me by becoming upset with me on small things when i reply late or call her late and i feel like an emotionaly tortured jackass who has sacrificed himself for the sake of her happiness and i have to convience her for hours because even i dont want to huut such a sweet girl who loves me so much! but it is also frustrating at the same time!! i just like her as a friends as she is very good and caring at heart and i salute her the way she has taken care of me and has loved me.she is madly in love with me and never wants to lose me and cries a lot even on the thought of we departing ever in our lives. ofcourse i cant love the way she wants me as i dont have any feelings for her and have got hooked to her just for the heck of it! please help ...i wanna get rid of her as situation is already out of my control! also i am afraid of the consequences!!
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reader, Answerthis +, writes (20 March 2009):
Dude, if you don't have feelings for her, it isn't fair to either one to carry on the relationship. Eventually she will pick up on it, and the longer it takes for that to happen the greater he damage, and so too your frustration will start to show, and hurt her even more than an honest break-up...
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