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Is there any hope for us at all?

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Question - (20 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 20 and my boyfriend (babys dad of 2) is 23 and we've both done the cheating and the lying thing in the past but not since we got back together last aug. Me and my boyfriend have a huge trust issue that I wasn't exactly aware about until now. We've had trust issues in the past, this is a long term on and off relationship. We saw a therapist and he went to anger management and all seemed way better, we talked about everything as compared to having a civil conversation 2 or 3 times a week in the past.

So I felt the trust in the relationship had been regained on both parties for that is what he said he trusted me a lot more as did I with him but he read a question of mine about my friends and how he doesn't like them and he got onto my account and posed as me and said all these horrible things making me look like a horrible person. I just found this out when I logged onto my account and he's in the room and I asked him why he did that and he simply said your friends are sluts and that I should tell the readers everything.

This is when I pointed out everything he said wasn't true and pointed out the things that weren't and he just rolled over and asked me to turn out the light when I was done. I'm so frustrated at this point my blood pressure is off the charts, I'm so mad that he got onto my acount without asking, lied about me and betrayed me. I know it's a bad relationship, I just want to know if there is anything I can do to make him less controlling and give me my space and a little bit of privacy and honesty is there any hope for us at all?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

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thanks for ur feed back since then we have split up but odd enouph we still live together as "roomates" witch it seems were way better friends then we were lovers thanks again as ur advice!

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