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writes:well i don't know what to say about what i am facing.seven years ago my best friend died in a car accident and all my family cried when they heard the news but i did't feel a thing. and two years ago my father died from a heart attack and i was holding him when he died but didn't feel a thing. and one week ago the rest of my family died and i didn't feel a thing at all. i went to a therapy and talked with him about this and he told me that what i face is normal. but i know tha it isn'y normal becuse everyone is calling me a monster. what is going on?
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reader, KorR?whotochoose  +, writes (20 March 2009):
when my mother was sick, i couldn't be around her.......i didn't want to cry around her.......my sister called me a monster too, i know exactly how you feel.......we all deal with things differently......one day something little, minor, not even a big deal will set you off......before you know it you'll be bawling and you won't even know why, and the tears will not stop until you have no more left in you.......i promise, things will get better.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): You're not a monster. Like everyone else, I think you're blocking it out. You're gonna have to let it out sometime. The longer you wait the bigger, and more explosive it gets. Best to just let it come out. I'm sorry to hear of the tragedies you have been witnesss to in you're life. I apoligise and wish you the very, very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): it could take ten years for you to cry
not everyone cries right away. you bottle it up
you sound a strong guy. everyone deals with their feelings differently .x
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (20 March 2009):
 When my dad diedi felt nothing, i cried once, that was it. I didnt cry when he died, i didnt cry at the funeral.
I felt nothing when my nan died either.
I dont think there is anything wrong with that.
Maybe your just stronger than you realise or just have a coping mechanism.
You're definitely not a monster.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): you aren't a monster - well you might be a monster with good hands so you can type. You are just shutting down the parts of your brain around these traumas so that you can survive.
Wont last forever something will trigger it and then you will explode in emotion. maye think over all the good memories.
Star.x.
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