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Take a chance of ruining our friendship?

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Question - (20 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I really like this girl and have for about 3 months. When we were txting she asked if i liked her and i told her yes. I haden't even asked her out and she just said she just wanted to be friends.Its been a while now and i think she is kinda intrested in me and I found out she only lives 2 miles away so im thinking of going to her house... i was planning to bring her a flower and asking her to dance and then maybe pecking her on the cheek but im not sure if i should take the chance and maybe ruin our friendship...HELP!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

Honesty is still the best policy. Its all in the approach. If you want to be more then just friends then let her know that. Be confident in letting her know. I would do without the flowers and such. But, let her know how you feel. And, tell her she can be very honest whether or not she wants to remain friends or try a relationship. Let her know whatever she decides you can still be friends. No need in playing games. Even if she decided to be friends now, you never know how the future may end up. Good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

text her and ask if she wants to give eachother a chance. if she says yes congrats. If she says no, leave her be. i have a situation like that. i think she kinda likes me but she already has a boyfriend. and were good friends. so i let it be ant then... POUNCE when she gets dumped or vice versa. haha lol.

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